SEATTLE INSTITUTE FOR SEX THERAPY, EDUCATION AND RESEARCH
100 N.E. FIFTY-SIXTH STREET
SEATTLE, WASHINGTON 98105
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Winter 1995 Calendar and Newsletter

MODELS AND MYTHS OF SEX AND SEXUALITY

by Elizabeth Rae Larson, PhDc

Many decades ago scientists identified the primary fetal form in mammals as female. This discovery was so upsetting that there was a delay in the dissemination of this information, e.g. to the level of graduate texts. If I may be so presumptuous as to speak for a generation of scientists I only know about second hand, they got upset because this little bit of biological information threatened the metaphor of male supremacy. As accumulating evidence supported the hypothesis that all human fetuses will develop as female unless exposed to androgen, "science" begin to digest this new knowledge under the rubric Organizational Theory. In this conceptualization the female is known as the "default" sex, the male is the "organized" sex. Facts are something we discover; we come to understand them, however, through the creation of mythic metaphor. As you can see in the above example, the metaphor carries more information than the original facts. An examination of even more facts reveals that "default" is a faulty label. When we examine the broader category of vertebrates, of which mammals are a part, a more accurately descriptive adjective for the female would be "ancestral." For the male, the best descriptor would be "derived" species. Anyone with a nodding acquaintance of the Adam's Rib myth can intuitively understand why these labels upset, why a knowledge of the biology of sexuality leads you down one politically incorrect path after another.

One of the most intriguing facts about our new models of vertibrateated evolution is how closely they fit the proto-historic Great Mother Myth(s). There are a few new facts that have to be woven into the tapestry, that change the story slightly, but overall the resemblance of modern scientific theory to this myth is uncanny. (Next article)

In species still existing today we witness a variety of reproductive forms that tell us much about the probable course of vertebrate sexual evolution. Among fish and reptiles it is possible to observe the evolution of sex and gender. It begins with self replicating species, a phenomena well-known among invertebrates but absent entirely in complex vertebrates like mammals. This is parthenogenesis; cloning if you will. Literally this organism gives rise to a replica of herself.

Interestingly, courtship (e.g. mounting activity) takes place even in species that do not exchange genetic material, i.e. are parthenogenic. In many species where female-female courtship occurs it appears to result in greater fertility and/or greater viability in offspring. This idea is not contained in ancient myths.

Where gender does occurs in these early vertebrates the determinants are in the environment, e.g. egg incubation temperature, number of males in a territory. Gender in some species of fish changes fluidly throughout the lifespan (hermaphrodism), in others it is fixed. Gradations of masculinity occur also in response to whatever environmental triggers are operating. Aggressiveness <--> submissiveness varies in the same fashion. All of these features are an expression of sex steroid hormones operating at varying concentrations. Exchange of genetic material occurs in some unisexual species but does not control masculinization.

In birds and mammals, however, it is the genetic material in the fetus that directs the development of sex (female<-->male) and gender (masculinization). Sex steroid hormones are the agents of modification here as they are in other vertebrates. Humans still have echoes of prenatal environmental impact on sex and gender because these hormones are remarkably responsive to the environment. Maternal hormones directly impact the fetus making the mother's environment a determinant of hormone influence. The primary determinant of sex in mammals, however, is the chromosome pattern determined through bisexual (two sexes) genetic exchange. Mathematically this reproductive strategy allows for greater diversity in offspring which should increase the chances for species survival.

So that is where we came from. When we say "diversity increases survival," a common example is the chances of an entire species being wiped out by a single disease. Behavioral diversity, however, is another aspect of flexibility within a species. Humans are extraordinary at it. It could be our survival; it could also be our doom. In the myths that come down to us from the ancient history of the Middle East to old Europe: the son (after reproducing the necessary number of descendants) slew the mother and took the show for himself. That is another article, however. NOTE: Proposing theoretical models is always a tricky business. The author takes full responsibility for knowing that what she proposes is always only part of the truth. She would welcome a dialogue with others interested in these topics. For references or further discussion, please contact the author through Seattle Institute.

THE EVOLUTION OF HUMAN SEXUALITY

A Mythopoetic Biology Lesson On The Origins Of Reproduction In Vertebrates.

AND IN THE BEGINNING (Of vertebrate life) WAS THE GREAT MOTHER, (Only one sex existed) WHO GAVE BIRTH TO HERSELF, (Parthenogenic reproduction occurs in vertebrate species.) AND MADE LOVE TO THE OTHER, (Sexual mounting occurs in species that are parthenogenic) AND THEY MULTIPLIED.

(After non-genetic courting more eggs are laid or better protected) AND FROM THESE DAUGHTERS LOVING EACH OTHER, (Female-female mounting has been observed in many species from parthenogenic vertebrates to domestic animals.) A SON/LOVER WAS BORN, (Sexual differentiation occurs in fish and reptiles. It occurs in response to environmental conditions and is mediated by sex steroid hormones.) WHO BECAME A FATHER, (Bisexual, i.e. two sexes, genetic exchange reproduction develops.) AND OUR DISTANT ANCESTORS WERE BORN. (Birds and mammals reproduce through bisexual genetic exchange in which chromosomes dictate sex and gender through sex steroid hormones.) ERL

THE NEW SEX SURVEY

Since so much has been written about this research and people's reaction to the information, it is tempting to skip over this subject. However, one painful truth about American culture that this study reveals has not been commented on. Our data base from anthropology, taken in its totality, shows a very powerful inverse correlation between coital frequency and violence/warfare. Cultures with high coital frequencies are far less likely to engage in warfare or in pathological violence, e.g. killing, torturing or mutilating. By the old higher coital frequency estimates Americans already were in the bottom 25% for coital frequency. The only European country that used to rank lower than we did was the Irish. Most Americans can see the high levels of violence in Irish culture; what is harder to see is our own.

ERL

CURRENT GROUPS FORMING

PRE-ORGASMIC WOMEN'S GROUP

Michele Clarkson, M.S.W., facilitator.
Times: Mondays and Thursdays 7:30-9:00pm
Fee: $50 deposit, balance $300.

One out of 5 women is not orgasmic. This well-researched program has a demonstrated ability to teach women how to achieve orgasm and improve self-esteem in the process. This 5-week group meets twice a week with daily homework. The preparation reading is For Yourself, by Lonnie Barbach.

SEXUAL SELF-ESTEEM FOR GAY MEN

Malcolm McKay, M.Ed. facilitator
Times: Wednesdays, 6:30-8:30pm/10 weeks
Fee: $50 deposit, $300 balance

Today, gay men experience a frightening array of dynamics which can devastate their self esteem and sexual functioning. From HIV to all the "isms" (heterosexism, looksism, ageism, racism) fear blocks intimacy and social ease. This group will address the skills needed to thrive in today's gay world.

CO-ED PARTNERS OF SURVIVORS

Coordinator, Elizabeth Rae Larson,.
Times: 6:30-8:30
Fee: $350/10 weeks
Ongoing group meets every other Monday night. A minimum commitment of six sessions is necessary to join. This group provides information and assistance in problem solving for people in intimate relationships with partners who have physical, psychological, and/or sexual trauma/exploitation histories. The group can operate as a supplement to couple's treatment or while the survivor is enrolled in other individual or group treatment.

HIV+ COUPLES GROUP

Malcolm McKay, M.Ed. and staff, facilitating
COUPLES ONLY.
Times: Thursdays, 6:30-8:30pm
Fee: $100 deposit $500 balance/couple/10 weeks.

Whether one or both partners are infected, both are affected by this trying and complex illness. More than a support group, this group will offer skills to improve coping and thriving.

RECOVERY FROM RAPE: Healing Your Sexuality.

Single copies of this booklet authored by Seattle Institute staff are available. Please send a small donation and SASE to 100 N.E. 56th St., Seattle, WA 98105

A WORKSHOP FOR PROFESSIONALS

Topic: ADULT INCEST SURVIVORS:
DIFFERENT PATTERNS, DIFFERENT APPROACHES
When: Friday, January 27, Saturday, January 28, 1995
Where: Shoreline Community College
Sponsor: American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists
Pre-registration: Michele Clarkson, (206) 281-7610 #3.
Leave name and address to receive registration information.

Presenters: Drs. Noel Larson and Sally Maison from St. Paul Minnesota Doctors Larson and Maison are highly regarded and sought after presenters for their expertise in the area of sexual abuse. The workshop will be designed to present the continuum of reactive survival stances from victim to perpetrator seen in adult survivors of childhood sex trauma. Doctors Larson and Maison will present their models for treating the five identified stances. The workshop will consist of didactic presentation, role play sequences and viewing of videotaped client/therapist sessions.

Intended Audience: Marriage and Family therapists, counselors, therapists who work with adolescent and adult survivors, health and sex educators, clergy, probation officers, anyone who specializes in working with adult survivors of sexual abuse.

SEATTLE INSTITUTE STAFF AND BOARD

STAFF MICHELE CLARKSON, M.S.W.,

is an AASECT certified sex therapist who works with individuals, couples and facilitates groups. She currently leads the Pre-Orgasmic Women's Group. She provides sex therapy supervision for AASECT interns.

ELIZABETH RAE LARSON, M.S., PhDc, FAACS,

is co-founder and current director of Seattle Institute and practices as a therapist and educator. She has been elected a Clinical Fellow of the American Academy of Clinical Sexologists and is certified as a Sex Therapist, Sex Educator and Clinical Supervisor by the American Board of Sexology. She is a certified Safe Sex Instructor/Advisor. Her clinical practice with individuals , couples and small groups focuses on social and sexual development. A portion of her practice is dedicated to treatment of survivors and their partners. She also works with sex offenders and people with obsessive-compulsive sexual problems.

MALCOLM MCKAY, M.Ed.,CMHC,

is a counselor in private practice with a focus in sex therapy and sexuality counseling. Adolescent and family counseling as well as a variety of groups are part of his practice. For Seattle Institute he is currently leading groups for HIV+ couples and a men's sexual self-esteem. Founder of NWAF safer sex groups and HIV University, He is currently on the adjunct faculty at Antioch University Seattle and holds certification as a Safe Sex Instructor/Advisor.

CONSULTANTS

MICHAEL KELCH, M.S.W., ACSW,

is a therapist working with couples and individuals in marital and sexuality counseling. His current interests include disorders of sexual desire and sex therapy with couples where one partner has been sexually abused or raped. He has extensive experience in the treatment of victims of violent crime.

MARILYN MCINTYRE, M.S.W.,

is a co-founder of Seattle Institute and a therapist in private practice. She is a certified sex therapist (AASECT). Her work in sexuality includes individual, couple and group therapy, public speaking, professional training and consultation.

BOARD

SHARMA OLIVER, R.N.,

is a research associate at Seattle Institute. She works in homecare nursing, has a private counseling practice in stress management for individuals and business, is an internet consultant, and writes for lay and professional audiences.

KAREN KUMMERFELDT,

co-founded Loveseasons in 1977, the first NW store providing products and information about human sexuality. She has attended trainings at the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality. She continues to manage her 2 stores and train her staff to inform people of the joys of human sexuality.

Elizabeth Rae Larson also serves on the Board.

WHAT IS SEATTLE INSTITUTE?

Founded in 1975, Seattle Institute for Sex Therapy, Education and Research operates on the principle that sexual energy is a positive expression of human life. We take a non-judgmental attitude toward the variety of expressions of sexual energy which are not self-destructive or exploitative of others. Our purpose is to assist people to explore and discover their own sexuality and to support them in finding ways to meet their needs. We serve a diverse group of women and men across traditional boundaries of sexual orientation and lifestyle. Counseling is available for heterosexual, lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender individuals and couples. All fees are negotiable, based on ability to pay.

WHAT SERVICES ARE OFFERED?

Sex therapy
Referrals
Sexuality counseling
Public speaking
Workshops
Professional training
Classes and consultation
Groups
Research

ALL FEES ARE NEGOTIABLE BASED ON ABILITY TO PAY

GENERAL INFORMATION

TELEPHONE HOURS: You can reach our voicemail by calling anytime. A counselor will return your call promptly.

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FUNDRAISING NEEDS To our knowledge we are the only program of our kind in this area that offers fee reductions. We appeal to those of you who believe that our services are a necessity, not a privilege, to support us with donations of money or time. MAILING LIST: We appreciate a donation of $5 per year to help defray the costs of our calendar. To receive the calendar, send us your name, address and zip code. Please notify us if you move.

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