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| Let
us look at a few of the technical terms we use for various marriage rules. |
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| Much
of this is already in the
glossary, but we put
them together here for comparing and contrasting. |
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| When
you are looking at such rules, make sure you know if each rule proscribes
or prohibits (forbids), prefers, prescribes (requires) or permits (allows). |
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| The
suffix, “gamy” is often used, and can be seen today as indicating spouse
or marriage. |
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| In
different cultures, there are different levels of formality and social
recognition of cohabitation. |
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| In
Akan
society, a socially recognised, non marriage, cohabitation is called mpna. |
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| A
priestess is married to her god, but may have an mpna to father
her children. |
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| In
Canada, persons living together conjugally without having undergone a legal
marriage ceremony, may be treated in law as if they are married after a
certain length of time. |
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| Marriage
laws are under Provincial jurisdiction in Canada, and differ from province
to province. |
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| Very
often immigrants to Canada bring their marriage practices and customs to
Canada, then modify and adapt them to conform to the law. |
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| Because
having more than one wife is illegal in Canada, there are cases when Moslems
from the Middle East, even if they satisfy all other immigration requirements,
may denied immigration status for having more than one wife. |
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| Bigamy
means two spouses, from the suffix “bi” meaning two. It is a specific
form of polygamy. |
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| It
is illegal in Canada and societies in Western Europe. The law reflects
Christian history and values. |
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| Endogamy
means marriage from within the same group, from “endo” meaning
inside. |
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| Ethnic
or racial endogamy means that a person must choose a mate from within the
same ethnic group or race. |
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| It
is permitted in Canada, and practised by some immigrant groups, but is
not seen as consistent with Canadian values of inclusion and racial equality. |
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| Exogamy
means marriage from outside the same group, from the prefix “exo” meaning
outside. |
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| The
smallest group outside which one should marry or have sex is the immediate
family, and the incest taboo, close to universal,
proscribes or forbids it |
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| Lineage
exogamy, where marriage is permitted only outside a person’s lineage
is seen as an extension of the incest taboo. |
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| Monogamy
means marriage to one spouse, from the prefix “mono” meaning one. |
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| In
Christian ideals, and practised in Europe and North America, this is the
preferred rule. |
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| Serial
monogamy means several spouses in turn, one at a time. |
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| Polyandry
means having more than one husband, from “andry” meaning male. This
is practised very rarely, and can be found in a few places in Nigeria and
Northeast India. |
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| Polygamy
means more than one spouse, and includes both polyandry and polygyny.
Since polyandry is very rare, polygamy is often used instead of polygyny. |
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| Polygyny
means more than one wife, from the suffix “gyny” meaning woman. |
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| The
majority of recorded cultures and societies permit polygyny, but in them
all a very low proportion of marriages are polygynous. |
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| Most
men cite the extra expense as prohibiting them from having more than one
wife. |
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| In
the USA and Canada, groups such as the Mormons and Oneida allow polygyny. |
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| Since
adultery is not illegal in many places, polygyny can be practised so long
as the law is not required to recognise more than one relationship as marriage. |
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