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WHAT ABOUT THE ELDERS?
Respect is a cultural variable
Training Handout
What factors contribute to the variations?
If you have had experience
with several societies, you might easily notice that elders tend to be
treated with much more respect in most of them than they are in mainstream
Western societies.
Rather then rejoice or deplore that
fact, ask what are the social differences which may account for
those variations?
Is it merely
a question of the romanticizing of youth in modern media?
Most older
persons have accumulated much information, even wisdom.
Their physical stamina is usually
lower than for younger people, and their ability to learn new techniques
and technologies rather hindered.
(Memory? Now what did I eat for breakfast today?)
You can
think of many more characteristics commonly attributed to older
individuals.
If you look at many of the features
which distinguish older people from younger people, their value is lower
in industrial and post industrial societies and higher in agrarian and
trading societies and communities.
In the first, the ability to learn
new technologies is useful because social and technological change
is faster.
In the second, accumulated wisdom
retains its use because agrarian and trading communities change
more slowly.
In gathering and hunting societies,
their knowledge of where the resources are to be found in nature, and the
methods of making things ––
including traditional hand made artefacts ––
are both useful and appreciated.
Even in town today, where you find
a family grocery store, grandma and/or grandpa can help out and run the
till or do other useful tasks Not so in other industries.
The value that older people have,
which varies where the technology varies, may be an important factor to
consider when comparing degrees of respect.
In western societies a common practice
is to put seniors into special seniors' homes where they can be cared for
by professionals while their busy family members can go on with their lives,
and perhaps feel less guilty about not looking after them.
Many such residences try to provide
an illusion of gemeinschaft, but because
they are bureaucracies and often requiring to show a profit, that is often
only an illusion.
Governmental regulations, especially
about hygiene and safety, in seniors homes hinder the spontaneity of community
life.
Staff have definite tasks to complete
so as to keep their jobs, and do not have time or inclination to take time
for side tracks and diversions.
Pets, especially
the big joyful slobbering dog, are often prohibited.
Children
are scarce, usually well behaved and kept on short leashes by the
parents.
As one resident once sighed, “We
just come to the lobby after breakfast and stare at each other, waiting
for them to die.” Bartle 2005 p.9:4<
Canadian mainstream society is informed
by the values of capitalism and corporate
culture.
They preach selfishness and greed.
Spin doctors sometimes call these "the profit motive."
Over concern for one's own well being
detracts from respect and concern from the well being of others, including
elders.
In many agrarian (farming) and mercantile
(trading) societies, the elders would be an intrinsic part of the family
as a productive unit.
Capitalist
society does not require the family to be the productive unit (as factories
became the main units of production).
When a family engaged in running
a shop, even if the elders were physically weak, they could keep the accounts
or run the till. They were useful Not so in capitalist
society.
Similarly among farming families,
although elders did not have the physical strength or stamina, their accumulated
wisdom and mental skills kept them useful, and this contributed to the
respect they enjoyed.
In capitalist society, with automation
and mechanization, only the most productive remain employed, and that further
pushes seniors out of work.
In Canadian mainstream society, the
common practice is for our seniors to live in specialized residences that
are designed to care for their needs.
There is a lot of guilt on the part
of their children who think to a time in our own history when seniors were
cared for by their children at home.
Our busy pace of life is often used
as a rationale (excuse) for packing them off to a seniors’ home, where
they may practice their dementia and confusion under the watchful eyes
of professionals.
The industrial revolution and capitalist
economy required social and geographical mobility.
This contributed to the erosion of
the extended family Workers moved but could not bring their elderly
parents, so they often abandoned them.
It is important to note that many
family characteristics are not merely the result of internal family dynamics,
but are caused by and reflect the wider technological, economic and political
characteristics of changing societies.
Solutions to the problem are many.
Mixed communities allow people of
all ages to live together ("elders" as a category is a social
construct; in reality we all age one day at a
time in a continuum).
Flexible working hours and availability
of part time work will allow people to remain productive as they
grow older.
Removing forced retirement as a specific
age (eg 65) will allow seniors opportunity to work longer.
Creating meaningful community service
positions and programmes that will allow seniors to participate will also
help.
Reference
Cited: Bartle, P (2005) The Sociology of
Communities; An Introduction. Camosun Imaging. Victoria
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