
FAQ Page
for Autism/Asperger's Relationship Pages
Yeah, we're used to asking stupid questions, so why not answer
a few?
This FAQ page relates to the editorial content of the web
pages; not to the subject matter. For "FAQs" on the
subject matter, see the main pages. This page is to answer
questions of the nature of, "Why don't you
mention ______?"
- Why do you refer to people with Asperger's syndrome as
autistics?
- There is generally considered to be a continuum of people on
the autism Spectrum, including Kanner's autism, "high
functioning autism", Asperger's syndrome, PDD or PDD/NOS.
There may or may not be different underlying physical processes,
but in real life there are no clear dividing lines. All of us are
on the autism Spectrum.
- Why do you refer to people with Asperger's syndrome as
autistics? (same question; different meaning)
- In terms of people first language, this is not
generally favoured by autistics because autism is part of the
person's identity and culture. I do not see "people
first" language as useful in the case of autistics.
In general, people associated with a condition identified with a
subculture are inclined to describe the condition in title form, as
deaf or autistic. If one wishes to be clear as to
the meaning, one can "Autistics" (with a capital
"A") to indicate cultural identity; however this does not
address the "people first" issues because "people
first" does not preclude such noun-descriptors for cultural
identification.
Another problem with "people first" language is that it
can become more of an obstruction than a meaningful change.
It is also my opinion that "people first" language is
mostly symbolic. Most of the advantage of "people first"
language is obtained by mixed usage of "people first" and
noun-descriptor language. Moreover noun-descriptor language does
not create a negative perception of "people with autism"
or "autistics".
For more commentary on "people first" language as applied
to autistics, see See Sinclair 1999;
http://web.syr.edu/~jisincla/person_first.htm
As to the directory structure at SCN, this page is at
http://www.scn.org/people/autistics . This
reflects SCN's categories of Information Providers and has
nothing to do with "people first". The Autistics website
(this website) is in the People category.
- What's the difference between Asperger's and HFA?
- This is an editorial FAQ, so I'll leave substantive questions
to your web searching ability.
- Why do you not mention ____ as a way of meeting people?
- If you find that a particular place or group advantageous, use
it. This is not a comprehensive list.
- What about a particular precaution? Autistics have a
tendency of taking things literally and ..."
- If you are inquisitive enough to get to the webpage, I presume
you are able to do the research and work out the details.
- What about this important abuse issue?
- As mentioned on abuse.html, there are a number of resources
for this. The point here is to be aware of the issue and to note
particular characteristics of abuse of autistics. Abuse is too
complex of a subject to be comprehensively addressed here.
- Why are you not advocating marriage?
- Because it isn't always the ideal relationship, at least for
autistics. If an autistic finds marriage suitable, there's nothing
to prevent that.
- Why not explain more about socialisation?
-
I am intending to have a separate page on this, written by others.
It would seem that people who are interested in crossing the
threshold in dating, and people who want to learn about
socialisation may be two different groups. There may be a sort of
"Venn diagram" overlap, but that's a different subject.
As to meeting people in public places, that is a completely
different subject. NTs have it all over us in knowing how to walk
up to people and start an engaging conversation.
- I found your article directly through a search engine. What
other pages are there?
- Other pages at a website are most easily found by backing up to
the closest index page.
- Why are you spelling words a certain way?
- Because I want to. And bee cause the spill chequers on my
computer donut work wright. Most forms I use are listed in the
OED, v.2.
- Why do you capitalise "Spectrum"?
- Because it's a defined term. Why do you care?
- Would you recommend ...?
- No.
- What about child abuse, elder abuse and institutional abuse
of the disabled?
- Elsewhere on the web. If you ran across abuse.html, it is part of a series of pages
about autism and intimate relationships.
- What about issues of intimacy for autistics? After all, the
webpages pages relate to intimate relationships!
-
This FAQ was written before this
(www.scn.org/autistics/sexuality.html)
An excellent series is also found at Melissa Bee's
website, www.hunnybee.com/autism/sexuality.html
and
www.sexualhealth.com/experts/viewexpert.cfm?
ID=34
and
www.hunnybee.com/autism/autismsupport1.html
Also see links at the index
page to this website.
- How was this written?
- HTML was manually "coded" (not a complex task), using
Wordperfect 5.1
- What cookies do you use?
- I don't.
- Who sees these webpages?
- Here is a web hit log report. We
don't track individual users. Our "web hit log" reports
webhits by domain only. (Web hit informatin can also be used to
display browser types, etc. but you'd have to go elsewhere on the
web to find that sort of thing.)
- Thanks to ...
- Elaine, Elgin M. and the people at SCN who have provided
webspace for a plethora of "information providers". Also
thank you to the contributors of the different articles here.
back to relationships index
Written 6-02 and 7-02; first posted 9 Aug 02. Last revised 10 Jan
03.
Comments about this site: email me
www.scn.org/~bk269/
